I am still smiling! We had such great response to “Hanging with my Family.” Almost 250 parents and kids came for a fun family night of food, games and prizes. Kid’s asked me at the end of the event, “When can we do this again?” “I wish you lived at my house so we could do fun things like this all the time.” Parents responded positively to the family devotional games. “Thanks for giving us tools to continue teaching our kids about God at home.”
But one of the highlights of the event for me was personally living out Psalm 78:5, “...He commanded the fathers to teach their children….” Passing on our faith is the responsibility of every parent. It is so easy to “tell” my kids what they should do- to tell them to serve God. But part of passing on our faith is modeling to our kids and inviting them to “do as we do”- to serve as we serve.
My mom did this well for me. She was actively involved in children’s ministry all her life. She made sure I did not just “tag along” with her. She made sure I served with her. I have tried to do the same with my girls. I was so honored to have my daughter Kristin serve with me and help me direct “Hanging with My Family.” Kristin teaches 5th grade at Explorer Elementary. The two of us planned together, prayed together, shared ideas. She learned from me and I learned from her.
Kristin:
Ever since I was a little girl, I loved doing things with my mother. My mom and I are very different when it comes to planning things and doing things certain ways. BUT, at the end of the day, we have the same focus….God. This event was not about us, it was about us working together to help families learn about how to have fun with each other and how to learn about God. That is the best reward being able to work with my mom….because we are a part of something much bigger than ourselves! For this event I was able to bring fresh, new ideas to the table and she brought wisdom and experience. We each had something to use for the greater good. I think kids need to not just watch their parents do things, I think they need to be involved.
Bonnie:
Where do you serve? Are your children a part of what you do? Do you praise them for their involvement with you? Do you help them see God’s approval for their service? Your children will not learn how to serve by just watching you. They will learn how to serve by serving with you.
There is a family in our church who model this so well. Gary and Alice Brunette and their children, Matthew, Abby, and Megan serve in so many ways at this church. And they are always doing it together. At “Hanging with My Family” they were serving as one team. You may want to talk to them to get ideas about serving as a family. You can find the family hanging out at the Children’s Ministry registration center on Sunday mornings.
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Wednesday, July 8, 2009
Saturday, June 6, 2009
Bonnie's Notes
Summer family worship is back!!
As a result of our survey at the end of last summer, it was obvious parents loved the family worship time together. So, for 9 weeks, starting July 5th through the end of August, all elementary children will join their families in the worship services.
We realize the greatest environment for a child to experience corporate worship is in a corporate worship setting. So, for these 9 weeks in the summer, we are asking our children to worship with their parents so that parents may model worship to their children. We are allowing ourselves to imagine this corporate worship service where our kids are sensing the spirit of God as they observe and participate worshipping with adults. It will be an atmosphere where our children will experience being a valued member of the bigger church family.
I believe there is a great benefit to families worshipping together. In the OT, parents included their children in the Passover so they could ask their parents, “What does this ceremony mean to you?”
When the Israelites celebrated the Passover according to God’s instructions, they brought their children with them so that during the Passover feast the children would be able to ask: “What does this ceremony mean to you?” Ex. 12:25-27.
I hope your child will look at you in a worship service and ask, “What does this mean to you?”
So, how do you help your child worship?
We will set up a Kids Worship Center in the main auditorium where your child will be able to pick up his own worship activity sheets (to help him participate during the service), pencils, and offering envelopes. Family activities will be included for you to follow up at home.
Included in your child’s packet will be the verse for the week. If your child memorizes the verse, you may sign the tear off and your child may return it for a prize!
This would not be a time for children to just “sit” with you. It will be a training time where you can help your child open his Bible, whisper prayers with him during prayer time, explain difficult words in songs that are sung, make sure he has an offering…
What if you are here for both hours on a Sunday morning?
A class for elementary children will be available in room 203. It is only for children whose parents are serving in another ministry or are in adult community class for a 2nd hour.
What about bringing pre school children into the family worship?
The child sensitive parts of worship in the family worship service are designed for elementary children. The nursery and pre-school will continue their regular programs during the summer.
It is my prayer that each child, who learns best by imitation, will learn the joy of worship as he enters this experience with his parent.
Bonnie Aldrich, Children’s Pastor
(Questions: contact me at: baldrich@pulpitrock.com)
As a result of our survey at the end of last summer, it was obvious parents loved the family worship time together. So, for 9 weeks, starting July 5th through the end of August, all elementary children will join their families in the worship services.
We realize the greatest environment for a child to experience corporate worship is in a corporate worship setting. So, for these 9 weeks in the summer, we are asking our children to worship with their parents so that parents may model worship to their children. We are allowing ourselves to imagine this corporate worship service where our kids are sensing the spirit of God as they observe and participate worshipping with adults. It will be an atmosphere where our children will experience being a valued member of the bigger church family.
I believe there is a great benefit to families worshipping together. In the OT, parents included their children in the Passover so they could ask their parents, “What does this ceremony mean to you?”
When the Israelites celebrated the Passover according to God’s instructions, they brought their children with them so that during the Passover feast the children would be able to ask: “What does this ceremony mean to you?” Ex. 12:25-27.
I hope your child will look at you in a worship service and ask, “What does this mean to you?”
So, how do you help your child worship?
We will set up a Kids Worship Center in the main auditorium where your child will be able to pick up his own worship activity sheets (to help him participate during the service), pencils, and offering envelopes. Family activities will be included for you to follow up at home.
Included in your child’s packet will be the verse for the week. If your child memorizes the verse, you may sign the tear off and your child may return it for a prize!
This would not be a time for children to just “sit” with you. It will be a training time where you can help your child open his Bible, whisper prayers with him during prayer time, explain difficult words in songs that are sung, make sure he has an offering…
What if you are here for both hours on a Sunday morning?
A class for elementary children will be available in room 203. It is only for children whose parents are serving in another ministry or are in adult community class for a 2nd hour.
What about bringing pre school children into the family worship?
The child sensitive parts of worship in the family worship service are designed for elementary children. The nursery and pre-school will continue their regular programs during the summer.
It is my prayer that each child, who learns best by imitation, will learn the joy of worship as he enters this experience with his parent.
Bonnie Aldrich, Children’s Pastor
(Questions: contact me at: baldrich@pulpitrock.com)
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
Summer family worship is back!
by Bonnie Aldrich
As a result of our survey at the end of last summer, it was obvious parents loved worshiping together as a family in “big church”. So for nine weeks, starting July 5 through the end of August, all elementary children will join their families in Sunday services to experience a family worship time.
We realize the greatest environment for a child to experience corporate worship is in a corporate worship setting. For these nine weeks in the summer, parents will have the opportunity to model worship to their children. We pray that our kids will sense the spirit of God as they observe and participate worshiping with adults. Let’s create an atmosphere where our children will sense their value as members of the bigger church family.
I believe there is a great benefit to families worshipping together. In the Old Testament, parents included their children in the Passover feast so the kids could ask their parents, “What does this ceremony mean to you?” What a teachable moment!
When the Israelites celebrated the Passover according to God’s instructions, they brought their children with them so that during the Passover feast the children would be able to ask: “What does this ceremony mean to you?” Exodus 12:25-27
I hope your child will look at you in a worship service and ask, “What does this mean to you?”
How can I help my child worship?
We will set up a Kids Worship Center in the main auditorium where your child will be able to pick up his own worship activity sheets (to help him participate during the service), pencils, and offering envelopes. Family activities will be included for you to follow up with at home during the week.
Included in your child’s packet will be the verse for the week. If your child memorizes the verse, sign the tear off portion and your child may return it for a prize!
Summer Family Worship is not be a time for children to just “sit” with their parents. It will be a training time where you can help your child open his Bible, whisper prayers with him during prayer time, explain difficult words in the songs, make sure he has an offering, and help him understand corporate worship.
What if I’m here for both hours on a Sunday morning?
A classroom for elementary children will be available in room 203. However, this room is only for children whose parents are serving in another ministry or are in an adult community for both hours.
Should I being my preschoolers to Summer Family Worship?
Summer Family Worship is designed for elementary-age children. The nursery and preschool will continue their regular programs during the summer.
It is my prayer that each child, who learns best by imitation, will learn the joy of worship as he enters this experience with his parent. If you have any questions or concerns, please do not hesitate to contact me at baldrich@pulpitrock.com or 598-6767 x. 109.
As a result of our survey at the end of last summer, it was obvious parents loved worshiping together as a family in “big church”. So for nine weeks, starting July 5 through the end of August, all elementary children will join their families in Sunday services to experience a family worship time.We realize the greatest environment for a child to experience corporate worship is in a corporate worship setting. For these nine weeks in the summer, parents will have the opportunity to model worship to their children. We pray that our kids will sense the spirit of God as they observe and participate worshiping with adults. Let’s create an atmosphere where our children will sense their value as members of the bigger church family.
I believe there is a great benefit to families worshipping together. In the Old Testament, parents included their children in the Passover feast so the kids could ask their parents, “What does this ceremony mean to you?” What a teachable moment!
When the Israelites celebrated the Passover according to God’s instructions, they brought their children with them so that during the Passover feast the children would be able to ask: “What does this ceremony mean to you?” Exodus 12:25-27
I hope your child will look at you in a worship service and ask, “What does this mean to you?”
How can I help my child worship?
We will set up a Kids Worship Center in the main auditorium where your child will be able to pick up his own worship activity sheets (to help him participate during the service), pencils, and offering envelopes. Family activities will be included for you to follow up with at home during the week.
Included in your child’s packet will be the verse for the week. If your child memorizes the verse, sign the tear off portion and your child may return it for a prize!
Summer Family Worship is not be a time for children to just “sit” with their parents. It will be a training time where you can help your child open his Bible, whisper prayers with him during prayer time, explain difficult words in the songs, make sure he has an offering, and help him understand corporate worship.
What if I’m here for both hours on a Sunday morning?
A classroom for elementary children will be available in room 203. However, this room is only for children whose parents are serving in another ministry or are in an adult community for both hours.
Should I being my preschoolers to Summer Family Worship?
Summer Family Worship is designed for elementary-age children. The nursery and preschool will continue their regular programs during the summer.
It is my prayer that each child, who learns best by imitation, will learn the joy of worship as he enters this experience with his parent. If you have any questions or concerns, please do not hesitate to contact me at baldrich@pulpitrock.com or 598-6767 x. 109.
Monday, May 4, 2009
Bonnie's Notes: Hanging with my Family
Want something fun to do with your family this summer? Check out our next family event:
Hanging With My Family
Date: Sunday, June 14, 2009 Start Time: 5:00 pm End Time: 7:00 pm
Location: Pulpit Rock Church West Campus
Families are invited to bring their preschool to elementary-age children and a family blanket to Hanging With My Family for an indoor picnic on Sunday, June 14 at 5:00 p.m. in the West Campus. We'll make dinner for you!Afterwards, enjoy a fun, fast-paced playtime with kids' games, prizes, crafts, and puppets! It'll be a night your family will be smiling about for days.
ADMISSION BUTTONS: Hanging With My Family buttons will be on sale outside the west and east doors on Sundays, May 24-June 14. Cost is $3.00/adult; $2.00/kid 2 and older; maximum $10 per family. These buttons are your tickets, so get yours soon!Wear your special buttons to church to help get the word out about this fantastic family event, then wear it as your ticket to get into Hanging With My Family on June 14!
Don't forget your blanket!
Questions? Contact: Bonnie AldrichEmail: baldrich@pulpitrock.comPhone: 719-598-6767 x. 109
Hanging With My Family
Date: Sunday, June 14, 2009 Start Time: 5:00 pm End Time: 7:00 pm
Location: Pulpit Rock Church West Campus
Families are invited to bring their preschool to elementary-age children and a family blanket to Hanging With My Family for an indoor picnic on Sunday, June 14 at 5:00 p.m. in the West Campus. We'll make dinner for you!Afterwards, enjoy a fun, fast-paced playtime with kids' games, prizes, crafts, and puppets! It'll be a night your family will be smiling about for days.
ADMISSION BUTTONS: Hanging With My Family buttons will be on sale outside the west and east doors on Sundays, May 24-June 14. Cost is $3.00/adult; $2.00/kid 2 and older; maximum $10 per family. These buttons are your tickets, so get yours soon!Wear your special buttons to church to help get the word out about this fantastic family event, then wear it as your ticket to get into Hanging With My Family on June 14!
Don't forget your blanket!
Questions? Contact: Bonnie AldrichEmail: baldrich@pulpitrock.comPhone: 719-598-6767 x. 109
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
Bonnie's Notes: Who invited the Easter Bunny?
What would you do if you walked into church on Sunday and saw the Easter Bunny sitting in the front row? Maybe you would feel like I do when I see Santa kneeling at the manger. But the truth is, Santa IS a part of my Christmas and the Easter Bunny IS a part of my Easter.
The truth is, Easter can be a time of confusion for children as they get the secular and biblical aspects of the Easter celebration confused. How do we help our children enjoy the fantasy figures of these holidays while deeply experiencing the truth of the birth, death, and resurrection of Jesus? How do we help them understand the true meaning of Easter?
Children will mirror what you model to them. Pay attention to what words come out of your mouth. What do these phrases make you think Easter is about?
“We need to get a new dress/pants and shoes for Easter. You will love wearing new clothes to church.” (Suggestion: To keep the attention off the clothes, my mom had us wear our Easter outfits the week before Easter.)
“You need to get to bed early because the Easter bunny is coming in the morning.” (Suggestion: “You need to get to bed early so we can get up early to celebrate that Jesus is alive.”)
And then there are those conversations that take place in the car on the way to church that go something like this: “Fix your hair. Keep your new shoes clean. No more Easter candy until after church. Be ready to leave church right after the service because the ham is in the oven/we have a reservation for dinner at noon...”
May I suggest the following while you are in the car on the way to church Easter morning:
· Let your child know that you are excited about what he/she will experience at the “Jesus is Alive” celebration that will take place in his/her classroom that morning.
· Teach your child an Easter tradition. People in the front of the car say “Christ is risen.” People in the back seat respond, “Christ is risen indeed.”
· Have family members finish this phrase “Because Jesus is alive….” (Examples: I will live with Him forever; He hears my prayers; He protects me.)
· Have someone pray in the car giving thanks that Jesus is alive!
· As you drive into the parking lot, say with enthusiasm, “Are you ready? Let’s go celebrate that Jesus is alive!”
Enjoy the Easter bunny, the candy, the colored eggs, the new clothes, the Easter dinner, but let your conversation be filled with the excitement of the risen Savior. As your own heart is focused on the joy of a risen Savior, your kids will catch your heart and celebrate the risen Savior with you.
May your family experience a blessed Easter.
The truth is, Easter can be a time of confusion for children as they get the secular and biblical aspects of the Easter celebration confused. How do we help our children enjoy the fantasy figures of these holidays while deeply experiencing the truth of the birth, death, and resurrection of Jesus? How do we help them understand the true meaning of Easter?
Children will mirror what you model to them. Pay attention to what words come out of your mouth. What do these phrases make you think Easter is about?
“We need to get a new dress/pants and shoes for Easter. You will love wearing new clothes to church.” (Suggestion: To keep the attention off the clothes, my mom had us wear our Easter outfits the week before Easter.)
“You need to get to bed early because the Easter bunny is coming in the morning.” (Suggestion: “You need to get to bed early so we can get up early to celebrate that Jesus is alive.”)
And then there are those conversations that take place in the car on the way to church that go something like this: “Fix your hair. Keep your new shoes clean. No more Easter candy until after church. Be ready to leave church right after the service because the ham is in the oven/we have a reservation for dinner at noon...”
May I suggest the following while you are in the car on the way to church Easter morning:
· Let your child know that you are excited about what he/she will experience at the “Jesus is Alive” celebration that will take place in his/her classroom that morning.
· Teach your child an Easter tradition. People in the front of the car say “Christ is risen.” People in the back seat respond, “Christ is risen indeed.”
· Have family members finish this phrase “Because Jesus is alive….” (Examples: I will live with Him forever; He hears my prayers; He protects me.)
· Have someone pray in the car giving thanks that Jesus is alive!
· As you drive into the parking lot, say with enthusiasm, “Are you ready? Let’s go celebrate that Jesus is alive!”
Enjoy the Easter bunny, the candy, the colored eggs, the new clothes, the Easter dinner, but let your conversation be filled with the excitement of the risen Savior. As your own heart is focused on the joy of a risen Savior, your kids will catch your heart and celebrate the risen Savior with you.
May your family experience a blessed Easter.
Monday, March 2, 2009
"I cannot NOT do it" by Bonnie Aldrich
Do you know what the compelling of the Holy Spirit feels like? (Acts 20:27) Being compelled by the Spirit is saying, “I have to do this--I cannot NOT do this.”
That is how I feel about Children's Ministry at PRC. I cannot NOT be committed to the next generation. Children are receptive to Jesus, and I love watching life transformation take place before my eyes. I cannot imagine being at church and not being with kids.
I’m not the only one who feels this way. Here is what some of our staff and parents say about being compelled to serve in our Children’s Ministry:
“I’m not sure what I enjoy most, the people I get to work with, the stimulation of teaching God’s Word, or the response of children to the whole process. But I’m not budging from this unless God drags me away.” -- Sandy Ramsey
“Working with my children allows me to get to know families with kids that are the same age as my kids. Being with them as they learn and worship shows them how important my faith is to me and models what I want them to learn. I get to have a maximum impact on the spiritual growth of my own children. I can have fun and learn things myself. Kids have a way of questioning things and making observations that adults don't. I am always able to see things a new way because of something a child has said.” -- Caitlin Garrett
“[Serving in Children's Ministry] gives me a chance to pass on our legacy of faith to other children!” -- Bill Pounds
“My great passion is to tell stories to children that show God's love in new and creative ways. Recently I performed the Good Samaritan story to kids four times. I could have done it several more without getting tired of watching their faces light up, hearing them laugh, and seeing the wheels turn in their heads." -- Shelley Lugauer
“I work with people who love Jesus and love each other. Together we work to help children know the love of Jesus early on so they can cling to Him all their lives.” -- Renee Turner
“I love to see children’s eyes light up at Bible story time. I love to see them dance and clap at worship time. They understand the simple truth of Jesus, and they remind me what true worship is when I forget.” -- Kjersti Hedges
“I know I am personally affecting kids for Christ. I get to watch how the teachers teach preschoolers about Jesus and then go home and follow through. I see how the lives of parents are impacted by a smiling face and a helping hand--by extending the heart and hands of Christ. It’s fulfilling for me when I see and hear that what I do does indeed make a difference for the Kingdom.” -- Deb Pinyerd
What are the things YOU are compelled by the Spirit to do?
Children's Ministry is a place where you can experience your passions, where you leave with a smile on your face. Hang around us awhile, and you might find purpose and fulfillment that you never knew possible. You might even find yourself saying, “I cannot NOT be involved with the kids at PRC!”
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If you would like to see if your gifts and experience fit into our Children’s Ministry, contact Bonnie Aldrich, Children’s Pastor at 598-6767 x. 109 or badrich@pulpitrock.com.
That is how I feel about Children's Ministry at PRC. I cannot NOT be committed to the next generation. Children are receptive to Jesus, and I love watching life transformation take place before my eyes. I cannot imagine being at church and not being with kids.
I’m not the only one who feels this way. Here is what some of our staff and parents say about being compelled to serve in our Children’s Ministry:
“I’m not sure what I enjoy most, the people I get to work with, the stimulation of teaching God’s Word, or the response of children to the whole process. But I’m not budging from this unless God drags me away.” -- Sandy Ramsey
“Working with my children allows me to get to know families with kids that are the same age as my kids. Being with them as they learn and worship shows them how important my faith is to me and models what I want them to learn. I get to have a maximum impact on the spiritual growth of my own children. I can have fun and learn things myself. Kids have a way of questioning things and making observations that adults don't. I am always able to see things a new way because of something a child has said.” -- Caitlin Garrett
“[Serving in Children's Ministry] gives me a chance to pass on our legacy of faith to other children!” -- Bill Pounds
“My great passion is to tell stories to children that show God's love in new and creative ways. Recently I performed the Good Samaritan story to kids four times. I could have done it several more without getting tired of watching their faces light up, hearing them laugh, and seeing the wheels turn in their heads." -- Shelley Lugauer
“I work with people who love Jesus and love each other. Together we work to help children know the love of Jesus early on so they can cling to Him all their lives.” -- Renee Turner
“I love to see children’s eyes light up at Bible story time. I love to see them dance and clap at worship time. They understand the simple truth of Jesus, and they remind me what true worship is when I forget.” -- Kjersti Hedges
“I know I am personally affecting kids for Christ. I get to watch how the teachers teach preschoolers about Jesus and then go home and follow through. I see how the lives of parents are impacted by a smiling face and a helping hand--by extending the heart and hands of Christ. It’s fulfilling for me when I see and hear that what I do does indeed make a difference for the Kingdom.” -- Deb Pinyerd
What are the things YOU are compelled by the Spirit to do?
Children's Ministry is a place where you can experience your passions, where you leave with a smile on your face. Hang around us awhile, and you might find purpose and fulfillment that you never knew possible. You might even find yourself saying, “I cannot NOT be involved with the kids at PRC!”
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If you would like to see if your gifts and experience fit into our Children’s Ministry, contact Bonnie Aldrich, Children’s Pastor at 598-6767 x. 109 or badrich@pulpitrock.com.
Sunday, February 1, 2009
What is a “d6” family?
A conversation between Children’s Pastor Bonnie Aldrich and Kingdom Kids Director, Sandy Ramsey.
Bonnie: I love d6family.
Sandy: The what family?
Bonnie: Oh, d6family.com.
Sandy: What does d6 stand for?
Bonne: It’s all about parents connecting with their kids spiritually. Parents want to be involved in the spiritual development of their kid’s lives--they just don’t know how. That’s where d6 comes in.
Sandy: Okay, but what is d6?
Bonnie: It’s the answer to the 168 weekly hours of a child’s life. We may have a child in Children’s Ministry up to four hours a week. But what spiritual training is going on the other 164 hours?
Sandy: And that’s where d6 comes in?
Bonnie: Exactly!
Sandy: But what does d6 stand for?
Bonnie: It’s what we have been doing at PRC for years. It’s our Parent Driven program.
Sandy: Now that I know about. Parents learn how to train their children spiritually by being involved with their kids in the learning experience at church. But will you tell me what d6 is?
Bonnie: Sandy, think about it. d6. We talk about it all the time!
Sandy: What we talk about is parents volunteering in their child’s classroom on Sunday where they learn what their child can understand spiritually; they learn how to follow up at home; they learn how to model the importance of church to their kids; they learn--
Bonnie: --how to do d6! And the best part of d6family are Splinks--a SIMPLE way to LINK a family together spiritually. They're creative ways of interacting with children using family devotional starters. They help create teachable moments to pass along spiritual truths and life lessons--and it’s just fun.
Sandy: D6 is fun?
Bonnie: Lots of fun!
Sandy: Are you going to tell me what d6 is or not?
Bonnie: Of course not. If I tell you what d6 stands for, you’ll never go to www.d6family.com. So if you want to know what d6 is, you know where to find the answer. (When you find out, don’t tell anyone. Make them check out the website, too.)
Bonnie: I love d6family.
Sandy: The what family?
Bonnie: Oh, d6family.com.
Sandy: What does d6 stand for?
Bonne: It’s all about parents connecting with their kids spiritually. Parents want to be involved in the spiritual development of their kid’s lives--they just don’t know how. That’s where d6 comes in.
Sandy: Okay, but what is d6?
Bonnie: It’s the answer to the 168 weekly hours of a child’s life. We may have a child in Children’s Ministry up to four hours a week. But what spiritual training is going on the other 164 hours?
Sandy: And that’s where d6 comes in?
Bonnie: Exactly!
Sandy: But what does d6 stand for?
Bonnie: It’s what we have been doing at PRC for years. It’s our Parent Driven program.
Sandy: Now that I know about. Parents learn how to train their children spiritually by being involved with their kids in the learning experience at church. But will you tell me what d6 is?
Bonnie: Sandy, think about it. d6. We talk about it all the time!
Sandy: What we talk about is parents volunteering in their child’s classroom on Sunday where they learn what their child can understand spiritually; they learn how to follow up at home; they learn how to model the importance of church to their kids; they learn--
Bonnie: --how to do d6! And the best part of d6family are Splinks--a SIMPLE way to LINK a family together spiritually. They're creative ways of interacting with children using family devotional starters. They help create teachable moments to pass along spiritual truths and life lessons--and it’s just fun.
Sandy: D6 is fun?
Bonnie: Lots of fun!
Sandy: Are you going to tell me what d6 is or not?
Bonnie: Of course not. If I tell you what d6 stands for, you’ll never go to www.d6family.com. So if you want to know what d6 is, you know where to find the answer. (When you find out, don’t tell anyone. Make them check out the website, too.)
Monday, December 1, 2008
Christmas Traditions
I love Christmas traditions! Through the years, our family has enjoyed several of our own. For example, it’s against house rules to listen to Christmas music until after Thanksgiving (a rule we always seem to be breaking). Almond Roca is the must have Christmas cookie we bake. We celebrate the advent wreath on the Sundays of December. We have a strict rule that there shall be absolutely no peeking under the tree (except for me).
When it comes to Christmas tree traditions, we all sit quietly (making no comments) as Steve untangles the lights and wraps them around the pine branches. Then we turn on Bing Crosby Christmas music as we each hang our favorite ornaments--maybe in our favorite Christmas socks. We finish by sitting before the tree with hot cocoa.
On Christmas Eve night, Steve eats the cookies left for Santa and leaves a thank you note on the cookie plate. Christmas day, we light sparklers, which is a leftover tradition from our years in Colombia. We always read the Christmas story before we open presents.
For several years, each member of our family had a Christmas journal. As we reflected on the Christmas story during December, we would write our thoughts and insights about God’s gift of Jesus to us. We would share our journals with each other. It was a time of Christmas worship together. Of all our family traditions, I like this one the best. I love when we worship together as a family.
Here are some great resources for times of worship with your family. They would make great Christmas gifts for your kids!
Hands-on devotionals like “God & Me: Devotions for Girls" and "Gotta Have God: Fun Devotions for Boys,” both by Legacy Press, include Bible stories, questions, prayers, and great activity pages in separate, age-based volumes (ages 2-5, 6-9, 10-12).
“My First Message: a Devotional Bible for Kids” by Eugene H. Peterson targets ages 4-8 with artwork from former Disney animators, Rob Corley and Tom Bancroft. It is based on four key elements: Reading the Bible, thinking about what it means, praying in response to what it says, and living out the truth.
“My First Message Bible Search: Discovering Answers in God's Word" by Jon Nappa helps children ages 6-10 find scriptures that talk about sadness, anger, fear, and obedience.
For an easy-start family devotional, try “Step into the Bible: 100 Bible Stories for Family Devotions” by Ruth Graham. This bright, colorful devotional includes a Bible reading, questions to answer, and a verse to memorize.
If you're looking for a daily devotional, the “Adventure Bible Book of Devotions (NIV)” from Zonderkidz is a 365-day devotional book for children ages 9-12. This study goes along with the Adventure Bible.
Audio devotionals work great for those families on the go to practices, lessons, the store, etc. “Bible Eyewitness Hall of Faith” from Adventures in Odyssey offers 12 audio episodes featuring the Bible’s greatest heroes.
There is always room for one more tradition. Perhaps this Christmas your desire is to include a time together with your family to worship Jesus the Savior. Remember, family worship is a tradition that can last all year!
When it comes to Christmas tree traditions, we all sit quietly (making no comments) as Steve untangles the lights and wraps them around the pine branches. Then we turn on Bing Crosby Christmas music as we each hang our favorite ornaments--maybe in our favorite Christmas socks. We finish by sitting before the tree with hot cocoa.
On Christmas Eve night, Steve eats the cookies left for Santa and leaves a thank you note on the cookie plate. Christmas day, we light sparklers, which is a leftover tradition from our years in Colombia. We always read the Christmas story before we open presents.
For several years, each member of our family had a Christmas journal. As we reflected on the Christmas story during December, we would write our thoughts and insights about God’s gift of Jesus to us. We would share our journals with each other. It was a time of Christmas worship together. Of all our family traditions, I like this one the best. I love when we worship together as a family.
Here are some great resources for times of worship with your family. They would make great Christmas gifts for your kids!
Hands-on devotionals like “God & Me: Devotions for Girls" and "Gotta Have God: Fun Devotions for Boys,” both by Legacy Press, include Bible stories, questions, prayers, and great activity pages in separate, age-based volumes (ages 2-5, 6-9, 10-12).
“My First Message: a Devotional Bible for Kids” by Eugene H. Peterson targets ages 4-8 with artwork from former Disney animators, Rob Corley and Tom Bancroft. It is based on four key elements: Reading the Bible, thinking about what it means, praying in response to what it says, and living out the truth.
“My First Message Bible Search: Discovering Answers in God's Word" by Jon Nappa helps children ages 6-10 find scriptures that talk about sadness, anger, fear, and obedience.
For an easy-start family devotional, try “Step into the Bible: 100 Bible Stories for Family Devotions” by Ruth Graham. This bright, colorful devotional includes a Bible reading, questions to answer, and a verse to memorize.
If you're looking for a daily devotional, the “Adventure Bible Book of Devotions (NIV)” from Zonderkidz is a 365-day devotional book for children ages 9-12. This study goes along with the Adventure Bible.
Audio devotionals work great for those families on the go to practices, lessons, the store, etc. “Bible Eyewitness Hall of Faith” from Adventures in Odyssey offers 12 audio episodes featuring the Bible’s greatest heroes.
There is always room for one more tradition. Perhaps this Christmas your desire is to include a time together with your family to worship Jesus the Savior. Remember, family worship is a tradition that can last all year!
Monday, November 3, 2008
Daddy, Am I Going to Heaven?
by Bonnie Aldrich
"Daddy, how do I get to Heaven?"
"Mom, if I lie, does that mean I'm not going to Heaven?"
"Is cheating a sin?"
"Can I ever be so bad that God will never forgive me?"
Are these the kinds of questions your child is asking? If they are, this is good! Questions like these indicate your child is coming to grips with his sinful nature and how his sin affects his eternity in Heaven.
I hope you welcome these questions. You have the opportunity to help your child understand that he can never do enough good to go to Heaven. That's why God sent His son Jesus to take care of your child's sin.
Yes, Jesus did the work to provide forgiveness for your child's sin. But your child needs to respond to the forgiveness Jesus offers to your child.
How do you help your child respond to Jesus?
Your child is living in a culture teaching that there are many ways to Heaven. It is important that your child hears what God says about this and in His words in the Bible.
Here are three ABC-steps to explain to your child what God says about His love, His forgiveness, and His promise for eternal life in Heaven:
A - Admit that I am a sinner and that the result of my sin is death (Romans 3:23 & 6:23).
B - Believe that Jesus loves me and died for my sin (John 3:16).
C - Confess my sin and receive Jesus (1 John 1:9; John 1:12).
If your child expresses to you a desire to ask Jesus to forgive his sins, walk through the "ABC" and read the Bible verses with him. It is important to read from your Bible as you talk with your child so he understands that this is what God says, not just your views on forgiveness. Pray with him as he makes the most important decision of his life.
If you would like someone to assist you in praying with your child, or if you have any questions about what it means to be a Christ follower, please contact Bonnie Aldrich, Children's Pastor, 598-6767 x. 109 or email her at baldrich@pulpitrock.com.
On Sunday, January 18, 2009, at 9:30 a.m., we will have a "God's Family Birthday Party" celebrating children who have become Christ followers sometime during this 2008. Watch The Front Porch and the ekidz newsletter for details.
"Daddy, how do I get to Heaven?"
"Mom, if I lie, does that mean I'm not going to Heaven?"
"Is cheating a sin?"
"Can I ever be so bad that God will never forgive me?"
Are these the kinds of questions your child is asking? If they are, this is good! Questions like these indicate your child is coming to grips with his sinful nature and how his sin affects his eternity in Heaven.
I hope you welcome these questions. You have the opportunity to help your child understand that he can never do enough good to go to Heaven. That's why God sent His son Jesus to take care of your child's sin.
Yes, Jesus did the work to provide forgiveness for your child's sin. But your child needs to respond to the forgiveness Jesus offers to your child.
How do you help your child respond to Jesus?
Your child is living in a culture teaching that there are many ways to Heaven. It is important that your child hears what God says about this and in His words in the Bible.
Here are three ABC-steps to explain to your child what God says about His love, His forgiveness, and His promise for eternal life in Heaven:
A - Admit that I am a sinner and that the result of my sin is death (Romans 3:23 & 6:23).
B - Believe that Jesus loves me and died for my sin (John 3:16).
C - Confess my sin and receive Jesus (1 John 1:9; John 1:12).
If your child expresses to you a desire to ask Jesus to forgive his sins, walk through the "ABC" and read the Bible verses with him. It is important to read from your Bible as you talk with your child so he understands that this is what God says, not just your views on forgiveness. Pray with him as he makes the most important decision of his life.
If you would like someone to assist you in praying with your child, or if you have any questions about what it means to be a Christ follower, please contact Bonnie Aldrich, Children's Pastor, 598-6767 x. 109 or email her at baldrich@pulpitrock.com.
On Sunday, January 18, 2009, at 9:30 a.m., we will have a "God's Family Birthday Party" celebrating children who have become Christ followers sometime during this 2008. Watch The Front Porch and the ekidz newsletter for details.
Monday, August 4, 2008
Children's Registration is Coming
Every year in August we have the privilege to register our children, birth through 5th grade, in Pulpit Rock’s amazing children’s ministry program. The dates this year will be August 10, 17 and 24 with August 31st being promotion Sunday (and the unveiling of the new kids’ program, too!).
During this time, parents, non-parent, pre-parents, post parents and just-like-to-be-around kids-parents will be given choices in the involvement of their time with our children! There will be representatives of all aspects of children’s ministries to talk with to help you decide where to “own” part of the ministry! The GREAT thing about PRC’s Children’s ministry is that ANYONE can get involved! There are many areas to serve—all of which show the importance of our children’s spiritual development, modeled to our children.
Serving is NOT just simple involvement. It reflects the relationship YOU have with our Lord, Jesus Christ. It shows our kids that your love of Christ is not just manifested in talk but in deed as well. In the same way we show up for our kids’ sports and plays and recitals we show the importance of their spiritual heritage by “showing up” for this, too! The WONDEROUS thing about this ministry is that YOU get to create a legacy for your children by being “the heart and hands of Christ” by just BEING THERE! What a marvelous opportunity for everyone! And it only takes about 1 hour per month! Not a bad return on your investmentJ
So…I hope everyone will have a chance to come over and talk to our eager representatives from Nursery, Preschool, AWANA, Elementary Kids Ages, Support Services and Special Events! It will be nice to see your smiling faces and hear where YOU would like to be a part of our children’s spiritual heritage!
During this time, parents, non-parent, pre-parents, post parents and just-like-to-be-around kids-parents will be given choices in the involvement of their time with our children! There will be representatives of all aspects of children’s ministries to talk with to help you decide where to “own” part of the ministry! The GREAT thing about PRC’s Children’s ministry is that ANYONE can get involved! There are many areas to serve—all of which show the importance of our children’s spiritual development, modeled to our children.
Serving is NOT just simple involvement. It reflects the relationship YOU have with our Lord, Jesus Christ. It shows our kids that your love of Christ is not just manifested in talk but in deed as well. In the same way we show up for our kids’ sports and plays and recitals we show the importance of their spiritual heritage by “showing up” for this, too! The WONDEROUS thing about this ministry is that YOU get to create a legacy for your children by being “the heart and hands of Christ” by just BEING THERE! What a marvelous opportunity for everyone! And it only takes about 1 hour per month! Not a bad return on your investmentJ
So…I hope everyone will have a chance to come over and talk to our eager representatives from Nursery, Preschool, AWANA, Elementary Kids Ages, Support Services and Special Events! It will be nice to see your smiling faces and hear where YOU would like to be a part of our children’s spiritual heritage!
Wednesday, July 9, 2008
Extreme Makeover
from Pastor Bonnie
The dumpster has arrived. Kids Clubhouse has been torn down and carried away! After 15 years, we are giving our elementary children's area a new look.
So what is going on right now behind the locked doors of the old clubhouse?
We are creating a new environment where kids will experience good teaching, engaging worship and practical life application.
It will be an atmosphere that is inviting to kids; where they will say, "This is my place…I like to come here…I can bring my friends here…I meet God here."
So what kind of atmosphere best helps kids connect with God? Here's a look into some of the thought process:
We considered environments that would draw kids to the event (e.g. a town, a village, a park) but this kind of atmosphere would not help to engage them with the purpose for which they are there--to connect with God.
Yes, we can worship God in a town, a village, a park. But it may be easier to worship in a worshipful atmosphere; in a room where the environment is focused on worship.
After all, we do not decorate the adult worship area like a ski lodge to draw in the adults. We have the cross and candles--
elements that help to engage us in worship. So why would we not do the same for our kids?
After much prayer and listening to the Spirit of God, on August 31, we will open our kid's elementary as…here it comes…"Kingdom Kids!"
This new environment will be a place where kingdom kids meet to come together for worship. It's not a kingdom with castles, but a bright worshipful room with lots of energy that says, "We are here together to connect with God."
As they enter the room, they won't see kids drawn on the walls, playing sports, but kids raising their hands in worship, singing, praying, and with smiling faces. Bright-colored rooms and draped material will brighten up space where old fences once stood.
We are excited about this extreme makeover. We are excited about all the things our kids are learning about worship as they join their parents this summer.
We are excited about our children coming to "Kingdom Kids" in the fall, where they will be able to experience other parts of our mission statement:
The dumpster has arrived. Kids Clubhouse has been torn down and carried away! After 15 years, we are giving our elementary children's area a new look.
So what is going on right now behind the locked doors of the old clubhouse?
We are creating a new environment where kids will experience good teaching, engaging worship and practical life application.
It will be an atmosphere that is inviting to kids; where they will say, "This is my place…I like to come here…I can bring my friends here…I meet God here."
So what kind of atmosphere best helps kids connect with God? Here's a look into some of the thought process:
We considered environments that would draw kids to the event (e.g. a town, a village, a park) but this kind of atmosphere would not help to engage them with the purpose for which they are there--to connect with God.
Yes, we can worship God in a town, a village, a park. But it may be easier to worship in a worshipful atmosphere; in a room where the environment is focused on worship.
After all, we do not decorate the adult worship area like a ski lodge to draw in the adults. We have the cross and candles--
elements that help to engage us in worship. So why would we not do the same for our kids?
After much prayer and listening to the Spirit of God, on August 31, we will open our kid's elementary as…here it comes…"Kingdom Kids!"
This new environment will be a place where kingdom kids meet to come together for worship. It's not a kingdom with castles, but a bright worshipful room with lots of energy that says, "We are here together to connect with God."
As they enter the room, they won't see kids drawn on the walls, playing sports, but kids raising their hands in worship, singing, praying, and with smiling faces. Bright-colored rooms and draped material will brighten up space where old fences once stood.
We are excited about this extreme makeover. We are excited about all the things our kids are learning about worship as they join their parents this summer.
We are excited about our children coming to "Kingdom Kids" in the fall, where they will be able to experience other parts of our mission statement:
- "To build biblical community" (as they meet in small groups)
- "To extend the heart and hands of Christ" (as they are given opportunity to reach out to others)
- "To leave a legacy of faith" (as they are challenged with age appropriate truths and application).
Monday, June 9, 2008
Do This To Remember
by Pastor Bonnie Aldrich
On July 6, we will be observing the Lord's Supper in our family worship services.
As a parent, you may want to use this celebration as a time for your child to experience communion with you. Or, you may feel your child is not ready for communion and will have your child simply observe you taking communion.
Either way, whether your child observes or participates, it will be helpful to prepare your child for this time of remembrance. Here are some points to help guide a conversation with your child before you come to church:
THE MEANING: The word "communion" means to get together. It is the time we get together with the Lord.
REMEMBERING: Jesus tells us in Luke 22:20, "Do this to remember me." Communion is a time to remember that Christ died for our sins.
RESPECT: When we take communion, we do it with respect. This is a time we meet with God.
SYMBOLS: When Jesus met with His disciples at the Last Supper, He served them bread and wine. He knew that He was going to die and wanted His disciples to always remember His death. So He used bread and wine as symbols to talk about His death. The bread and wine are like pictures that help us remember Christ's death.
THE CROSS: The cross is a reminder of the place Christ died. During communion, we can think about how He died.
THE BREAD: The bread represents Christ's body. He was hurt when they nailed Him to the cross. He wants us to remember His pain and how fragile His human body was.
THE WINE/GRAPE JUICE: The wine or grape juice represents Christ's blood. He bled when they killed Him. Just as the blood on the door frame saved the people of Israel, Christ's blood saves us from our sins. He wants us to remember that His blood takes away sin.
PRAYER: Suggest a prayer to your child such as, "Dear Lord Jesus, I ask forgiveness for the sin in my life. I am sorry and ask You to help me make right choices when faced with sin. I thank You for dying for me. I know You faced pain, but I am thankful that You sacrificed Your life for me. Because You have forgiven me, I know I will live with You forever. I love You, Lord. Amen."
Having such a conversation with your child will help prepare him for the communion celebration we have as a church.
You may even want to have your own family communion service prior to the one was have at church to prepare. Communion will take place on the first Sunday of every month, starting July 6.
If you have questions about your child's communion experience, I would love to have a conversation with you. You may contact me at baldrich@pulpitrock.com.
On July 6, we will be observing the Lord's Supper in our family worship services.
As a parent, you may want to use this celebration as a time for your child to experience communion with you. Or, you may feel your child is not ready for communion and will have your child simply observe you taking communion.
Either way, whether your child observes or participates, it will be helpful to prepare your child for this time of remembrance. Here are some points to help guide a conversation with your child before you come to church:
THE MEANING: The word "communion" means to get together. It is the time we get together with the Lord.
REMEMBERING: Jesus tells us in Luke 22:20, "Do this to remember me." Communion is a time to remember that Christ died for our sins.
RESPECT: When we take communion, we do it with respect. This is a time we meet with God.
SYMBOLS: When Jesus met with His disciples at the Last Supper, He served them bread and wine. He knew that He was going to die and wanted His disciples to always remember His death. So He used bread and wine as symbols to talk about His death. The bread and wine are like pictures that help us remember Christ's death.
THE CROSS: The cross is a reminder of the place Christ died. During communion, we can think about how He died.
THE BREAD: The bread represents Christ's body. He was hurt when they nailed Him to the cross. He wants us to remember His pain and how fragile His human body was.
THE WINE/GRAPE JUICE: The wine or grape juice represents Christ's blood. He bled when they killed Him. Just as the blood on the door frame saved the people of Israel, Christ's blood saves us from our sins. He wants us to remember that His blood takes away sin.
PRAYER: Suggest a prayer to your child such as, "Dear Lord Jesus, I ask forgiveness for the sin in my life. I am sorry and ask You to help me make right choices when faced with sin. I thank You for dying for me. I know You faced pain, but I am thankful that You sacrificed Your life for me. Because You have forgiven me, I know I will live with You forever. I love You, Lord. Amen."
Having such a conversation with your child will help prepare him for the communion celebration we have as a church.
You may even want to have your own family communion service prior to the one was have at church to prepare. Communion will take place on the first Sunday of every month, starting July 6.
If you have questions about your child's communion experience, I would love to have a conversation with you. You may contact me at baldrich@pulpitrock.com.
Friday, May 9, 2008
Summer Family Worship
by Pastor Bonnie Aldrich
Every summer we do a unique program with our elementary kids. And this year we are looking at an exciting 13-week unit on worship as we focus on our mission "to passionately pursue God." We're calling it "Summer Family Worship 2008," and it will take place from June 1 through August 24.
We realize the greatest environment for a child to experience corporate worship is in a corporate worship setting. So, we in Children's Ministry began to ask, "What would happen if, for thirteen weeks in the summer, our elementary children worshipped alongside of their parents?" Such an experience would be an opportunity for parents to model corporate worship to their children.
Parents are giving this venture overwhelming support! They know that when it comes to how their child learn, more lessons are caught than taught. So together, we are imagining this corporate worship service as a place where our kids are sensing the spirit of God as they observe and participate worshipping with adults.
One of the things I see as I watch the trends in Children's Ministry across the country is that there appears to be a movement of families experiencing corporate worship together. "Big church" becomes a place where children feel they are valued members in the whole church family.
I believe there is a great benefit to families worshipping together. In the Old Testament, parents included their children in the Passover. "When the Israelites celebrated the Passover according to God's instructions, they brought their children with them so that during the Passover feast the children would be able to ask: 'What does this ceremony mean to you?'" (Exodus 12:25-27)
We want the kids in our Pulpit Rock family to be able to look at their parents in a worship service this summer and ask, "What does this mean to you?"
At the Kid's Worship Center, kids will be able to pick up their own worship bulletin (with activities to help them during the service), pencils, and offering envelopes. Family follow up activities will be printed on the back of the kids bulletin to facilitate conversations during the week.
Our services this summer will be sensitive to our elementary-aged children. This will not be a time for kids to just "sit" with their parents. It will be a training time during which parents can help their child open his Bible, whisper prayers with him, explain difficult words in songs, help him prepare an offering, etc. Our pastors will work hard to include our kids. Instructions may appear on the screens during the message so parents for example can stop and read a scripture with their child.
Parents who are at church for a second hour in a Community Group or serving in a ministry may drop off elementary-aged children for a class in room 203 for that hour only. Nursery and preschool (birth through age 4) will continue their regular programs during the summer.
As you prepare for this special worship time with your child this summer, ask God to use these weeks to help your child engage in meaningful worship.
If you aren't a parent of an elementary-aged child, please be in prayer about how you can model worship to our children through your actions.
My personal prayer is that each child, who learns best by imitation, will learn the joy of worship as he enters this experience with his parent and the rest of the family at Pulpit Rock Church.
Every summer we do a unique program with our elementary kids. And this year we are looking at an exciting 13-week unit on worship as we focus on our mission "to passionately pursue God." We're calling it "Summer Family Worship 2008," and it will take place from June 1 through August 24.
We realize the greatest environment for a child to experience corporate worship is in a corporate worship setting. So, we in Children's Ministry began to ask, "What would happen if, for thirteen weeks in the summer, our elementary children worshipped alongside of their parents?" Such an experience would be an opportunity for parents to model corporate worship to their children.
Parents are giving this venture overwhelming support! They know that when it comes to how their child learn, more lessons are caught than taught. So together, we are imagining this corporate worship service as a place where our kids are sensing the spirit of God as they observe and participate worshipping with adults.
One of the things I see as I watch the trends in Children's Ministry across the country is that there appears to be a movement of families experiencing corporate worship together. "Big church" becomes a place where children feel they are valued members in the whole church family.
I believe there is a great benefit to families worshipping together. In the Old Testament, parents included their children in the Passover. "When the Israelites celebrated the Passover according to God's instructions, they brought their children with them so that during the Passover feast the children would be able to ask: 'What does this ceremony mean to you?'" (Exodus 12:25-27)
We want the kids in our Pulpit Rock family to be able to look at their parents in a worship service this summer and ask, "What does this mean to you?"
At the Kid's Worship Center, kids will be able to pick up their own worship bulletin (with activities to help them during the service), pencils, and offering envelopes. Family follow up activities will be printed on the back of the kids bulletin to facilitate conversations during the week.
Our services this summer will be sensitive to our elementary-aged children. This will not be a time for kids to just "sit" with their parents. It will be a training time during which parents can help their child open his Bible, whisper prayers with him, explain difficult words in songs, help him prepare an offering, etc. Our pastors will work hard to include our kids. Instructions may appear on the screens during the message so parents for example can stop and read a scripture with their child.
Parents who are at church for a second hour in a Community Group or serving in a ministry may drop off elementary-aged children for a class in room 203 for that hour only. Nursery and preschool (birth through age 4) will continue their regular programs during the summer.
As you prepare for this special worship time with your child this summer, ask God to use these weeks to help your child engage in meaningful worship.
If you aren't a parent of an elementary-aged child, please be in prayer about how you can model worship to our children through your actions.
My personal prayer is that each child, who learns best by imitation, will learn the joy of worship as he enters this experience with his parent and the rest of the family at Pulpit Rock Church.
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